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Startup Tech: Lessons Learned – Part 1

Doing a startup you are truly passionate about is an amazing experience. It’s truly rewarding and I could see why entrepreneurs work so hard. They don’t consider it work when they are passionate about the business they are building.

Building a business is tough. Startup fundraising could be difficult for both women and men. Even your supporters and friends will show their true colors. Don’t take anything personally. Learn your lessons and move on. There’s no time to sit and lick your wounds.

Lessons learn:

  • When you walk with Quiet Giants, you need not fear wrestling with the 800 pound gorilla.
  • 800 pound gorillas are no match for a 100 wolves. It’s just a matter of time. Find your pack and start strategizing.
  • Follow the Golden Rule: One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself.
  • Karma will pay you back tenfold. Live long enough you will see it all.
  • The devil is in the details – don’t let anyone rush or belittle you for your decisions.
  • The higher you climb, the harder you fall.
  • Honesty, sincerity and integrity are the hardest things to fake. People can see through the bullshit. True colors always show.
  • Be patient and listen intently. Ask the questions your gut is yearning to know. You learn more from listening and asking than you do speaking.
  • Communication is 70% non-verbal. Try to meet in person as much as possible. Look everyone in the eye to see their sincerity. Video chat would be a good option also. It’s not time consuming in the long run. Cleaning up a mess is. Trust your instincts.
  • Don’t take “NO” for an answer. Unless, your intuition tells you to run…always trust that.
  • Your reputation stays with you, especially in this day and age where privacy no longer exist.
  • Work hard and earn your keep, respect will be automatic. Those with skill need not boast or show boat. The quality of your work will speak for itself. We all reap what we sow.
  • Don’t associate with people who are Social Liabilities.  Disassociate yourself from anyone and everyone that your gut tells you to run from.
  • Be careful who you choose to do business with. Some people fear marriage but will jump into a business partnership quickly. Both of you could get fucked. At least with a marriage, you get laid.
  • You never know when people are vetting you. You never know what they will find when Google-stalking you.
  • Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes it takes a while to truly know all the lessons you were meant to learn. It’s all worth it in the long run.
  • Learn your lessons or the universe will keep sending you more of the same until you are ready to receive the next lessons.
  • Some consider me weak and naive. Some consider me wise and tough as nails. It’s all a matter of perspective and perception. It’s not my business to worry about what others think of me.
  • Timing is everything. Follow-up with people as soon as you can. The early bird catches the worm.

Personally, my flaw is that I try to see the glass as half full vs half empty.  A good friend calls it “distorted reality.” I call it “augmented reality.” I choose to see the best in people, especially if they have potential. For this I have gained many life experiences and true friends. I also have been stabbed in the back and continuously bitten. Yes, once bitten and twice shy. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. There will never be a third. However, I refuse to let this taint it for the new people I meet and new experiences presented to me… for it will also limit the goodness in people and experiences I will truly enjoy.